DO * Smile and greet people, especially elders. * Shake hands, gently. * Accept hospitality and food. You do not have to eat and drink, but it is polite to ACCEPT. * Say goodbye and thank you when you leave. * Dress modestly. Women should keep upper arms and thighs covered. * Bend down and walk around seated people when you need to pass. * Use only your right hand to eat and to hand objects or money to someone. * Be sure to sit at the same level as other people. * Wear a sarong when entering the house of Melokaq (Adat leader) and when participating in ritual and adat ceremonies.
DON’T * Enter houses, building or village without being invited. * Wear shoes inside a house. * Point at people with your finger. Don’t ever use your foot to point at objects or people. * Point the bottom of your feet directly at people whilst sitting on the floor. * Touch anyone’s head. * Step over people or food on the floor. * Eat with your left hand or use your left hand to give or accept objects or money. * Raise your voice, especially in anger.
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